Should there be a kiss on a first date ??

Is a blind-date a good idea?

We all know that there is a time in your life where your friends have the 'perfect match' for you. But really, can this honestly be true?. Meeting a stranger that may be the one.

So would you consider a blind-date a good idea? Can you really take the risk and the belief that your friends know the characteristics that you're looking for.

In today's society, the blind-date is seen as a creative social idea to meet new people. The date can be a great success and could lead to a long-term relationship.

But, the identity of a person is an issue. Can we trust who they are or talk about your own personal issues to them. We don't know anything about them or their past relationships or past life in general. How open are you to share personal information about your life???

So.... Do you consider a blind-date a good idea?

Do you believe in sparks flying on a first date?

First date song

I don't know what to say or how to act!!! AWKWARD

Ok just because it is a first date does not mean you need to go with the typical lunch date, because it can be awkward sitting face to face with someone you don't know well and trying to make conversation. That awkwardness can make you feel like this will not work out.

It's always good to ask questions about them [just general questions to get to know each other] to break that awkwardness even if you are not interested in the conversation, ask questions so they can be more comfortable to talk about themselves and so they know you are interested in them. But beware of getting too personal just ask general questions. Avoid talking about ex girlfriends or boyfriends and avoid making comparisons.

Be honest but not too honest. You don't need to talk about family problems and at the same time you do not need to lie about your intentions. If you are on this date for fun, you should make that clear and the same goes for people who are more serious.

Getting to know each other should be best done in an area you both choose, and this area should be based on your comfort.

Bottom line is there is always something to talk about, no need to be nervous and blank out.

Just be yourself !

Who should pay?

The first date has been a blast!!!

Both of you have been laughing, sharing jokes, overall the date has been a success. All of a sudden... the waiter places the bill on the table.

The couple each place a hand on the bill, followed by a long vague look at each other.

So...who should pay for the first date?

• Always the male?
• The person who organised the first date?
• Should each pay for half, go Dutch ?

The 'Payment' is one of the crucial steps  on a first date.  It should not matter from a cup of coffee at a cafe to an expensive restaurant that was chosen, it is my understanding that the male should always pay on the first date. Men need to leave an impression that "he is not tight". It is as simple as that.

However, women must not take full advantage of this theory. Men prefer when a woman pretends to fight for the bill, knowing they had the intention to pay, instead of a girl who sits silently across the table waiting patiently for the male to 'take care of business'.

But... men... pay the bill on the first date!!

What is a big turn off on a date ???

1) Don't get drunk – Best not to drink much alcohol on a first date. This could be a disaster if you lose track of how many you have had.

2) Don't flirt with other people – This is a big no no , keep your eyes on your date otherwise don’t go on the date if you have other intentions.

3) Don't bring a friend on your date – This will make your date feel like the third wheel and look like you’re not that interested.

4) Don't leave your mobile on – It is annoying and rude to take calls when on a date so switch your phone off.

5) Don't dominate the conversation – Ask your date questions about themselves and don’t always talk about yourself. You don't want to look like you are more into yourself than your date !

6) Don't be late – First impression lasts so if you know you will be running late let your date know in advance as you don’t want to have your date waiting.

7) Don't make decisions for your date – Don’t order a meal for your date as this is inconsiderate and seems controlling.

8) Don't eat like a slob – Have good table manners. Eat normal , don't slurp your food and drinks and especially don't burp as it's a huge turn off.

If you can follow these simple pointers then you may have a better chance of going on a second date :)