1. Local Pub, Bar or Nightclub
This is a big no no because your date may be approached by other guys in a bar. This has been known to happen especially if these people are intoxicated they wouldn't care less if the girl is already with a guy!. This is very dangerous for men on the first date because it can lead to you getting into an argument with someone at the bar and you DO NOT want to hear yourself say “she’s mine, back off”. On a first she is definitely NOT “yours”. Also it makes it difficult to get to know someone due to the noise level so my advice is to save this for a future date and not for a first date.
2. Movies or Plays
This should be a given for a bad first date. The very nature of movies and plays prevents interaction with your date. I wouldn't recommend a movie or play but if you had dinner reservations arranged prior to or after the movie/play then that may be acceptable.
But again you don't want your date to get bored especially if the movie or play chosen is not her kinda thing. So please pick the movie/play carefully if you are going to go down that path for a first date!
3. Concerts
Lets just say you have managed to get some tickets to an awesome “sold out” concert that you know your date is a huge fan of (ie Rihanna). Now your thinking this is the perfect opportunity to get brownie points with your date , well, if they were not so keen on you before then they would be now, but sorry to say this but it is probably because of the tickets and not you.
With concerts you open yourself up for a range of disasters, from people hitting on your date, to your date being an overly obsessive fan and not paying any attention to you (now why would she if her favourite artist was performing live). The concert is generally going to be more memorable than yourself. So again my suggestion is to go to a concert once you have gotten to know your date a little bit better :)
4. Sporting Events
If your favourite team loses, the date will have a sour note. You are not really getting to know each other while watching two teams battle it out on the playing field. Going to a sporting event is mainly about the game and not about the date. I should not have to explain to you why a rugby match is not a good first date!!
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