Sunday, January 2, 2011

I don't know what to say or how to act!!! AWKWARD

Ok just because it is a first date does not mean you need to go with the typical lunch date, because it can be awkward sitting face to face with someone you don't know well and trying to make conversation. That awkwardness can make you feel like this will not work out.

It's always good to ask questions about them [just general questions to get to know each other] to break that awkwardness even if you are not interested in the conversation, ask questions so they can be more comfortable to talk about themselves and so they know you are interested in them. But beware of getting too personal just ask general questions. Avoid talking about ex girlfriends or boyfriends and avoid making comparisons.

Be honest but not too honest. You don't need to talk about family problems and at the same time you do not need to lie about your intentions. If you are on this date for fun, you should make that clear and the same goes for people who are more serious.

Getting to know each other should be best done in an area you both choose, and this area should be based on your comfort.

Bottom line is there is always something to talk about, no need to be nervous and blank out.

Just be yourself !

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